Saturday, July 25, 2009

Toddler Compromise



While many 13- month olds are just learning to walk, Kole has advanced to running, crawling on furniture like a monkey and working a compromise with a kitchen cabinet.
I installed the little cabinet lock things on all our lower cabinets ... except for one. To the left of our dishwasher is a little half-cabinet, good enough to throw a few cutting boards, a stand-up cheese grater and other miscellaneous kitchen devices. It was the only cabinet without a lock on it. We thought Kole would never figure it out. It's taken a while, but recently he did figure it out. The option was to go out and get a new package of cabinet lock-things to put it on one more cabinet to keep him away from some cutting boards, or else. Well, while staying recently at his Grandma Thomas' house, he found a quick and sudden fascination with her Tupperware cabinet, which she let him roam and explore and most just pull stuff out. Grandma didn't mind and this little featuer occupied and fascinated his time. So, back at home, we figured we'd reach a compromise with a cabinet - especially when he started throwing a rare freak-out tantrum when pulled away from the cabinet. He's a young monkey who needs to explore. It's in his DNA like running to a Greyhound. So, we found new homes for our practical kitchen items, then filled the cabinet with our crappiest Tupperware. If we find ourselves in the living room watching TV and don't notice Kole around but hear a nearby scuffle and racket, we now know where he is.

Attached is a photo of where you'll more-than-likely find Kole these days at the house. I'll also attach a photo of him with his very last can of baby formula. It's become a bit of a drum-toy, as he's now moved on to whole milk. By the way, we may have phased out bottles entirely and moved exclusively to sippy-cups or parent-assisted open-cup drinking.

Saturday, July 18, 2009

13 Months




Our little baby is slowly becoming a little boy. The other day with him sitting in his car seat I caught the shimmer of peach fuzz growing on his arms and legs.
He walks everywhere, if not trotting or attempting to run. He still has issues with balance and steps. He takes his sweet time walking over steps, and even the slope of our driveway makes him stumble and sway.
His favorite toy is still the little car his PaPa gave him for his birthday, but his favorite thing to do now is to crawl in from the side opposite the actual door. So, he likes slithering in the car like it was a Dukes of Hazzard car.
He still loves seeing his own image - whether it's in a mirror, or the reflection of a stainless steel trash can. Or, does anybody else remember looking at themselves in the stainless steel guard of a bathtub? And it was just distorted enough to curve your face like some kind of Fun-House mirror? Well, that has become another highlight of taking a bath for Kole. He stares at himself and screams as loud as he can scream. Happy-scream, but still a scream.
Now that he's as physically active as he's ever been, we now hit a season where triple-digits are outside, and playground equipment can sometimes give 2nd-degree burns to even adult hands. So, we've found a couple of nearby 'indoor playgrounds'. Once you go in you can't help but think "Why didn't we think of this?" Someone buys a strip-mall store, makes it a big playground with all kinds of toys, bounce-houses, etc. I'll attach some photos from a recent Kole visit.
Kole's diet is moving away from formula and mushy cereals and towards some solid staples - grilled cheese and macaroni and cheese. He's pretty good about eating most vegetables. Kathy buys canned chicken like you would make a chicken salad with, and he gobbles that up. Everything still with his hands. We're working on using utensils, but he still wants to eat with his hands and play with a spoon. Somewhere along the way, we purchased our last can of baby formula. At $18 a can, it will not be a purchase that will be missed. But, it's another reminder that our little midget is closer to boy than baby, and more of that stuff is putting a lump in our throat. He's now moved on to whole milk and he will absolutely slurp down every last drop if you put it in front of him. Give him more and he'll suck that bottle dry. He's a milk guzzling machine! Speaking of bottles, we're now trying to tansition to more sippy-cups and open cups, and even sucking from straws.
We think Maggie may have gained about 5 pounds since she became the beneficiary of Kole's mealtime droppings. Sometimes accidental, sometimes Kole picks up something he doesn't like and deliberately drops it on the floor for Maggie to gobble up.
We still haven't had a definative word spoken with direct association to a person or object. Along with "Mama" and "DaDa", the other key contenders for First Word look to be "ball", "Maggie" (some variation - "GeeGee" or something) , or perhaps an outside variation. This accounts for how some babies often make up their own word for one object - "boo boo" for a car, "tee" for a bottle, etc. We're just looking for some some consistent word directed at a person or object. Until that point comes, we get daily doses by the earful of babble and giggles, and it's not like we're in any rush to start shaping and fine-tuning grammar.
At restaurants or a store or wherever, we consistently get comments about Kole and how tall he is. At the indoor playground the other day, he had an inch on a kid who was 18 months old. Everyone agrees that he's one of the cutest kids they've seen. He's at a fun age and life is very, very good for the little guy. Photos: Kole swinging in our local 'indoor playground', The agony of a tumble and bump on the head, The bounce-back reaction less than 2 minutes later.

Sunday, July 5, 2009

4th of July



Went to Joe Pool Lake for the 4th of July. Pa Pa and Gram had their RV at a campsite, the Grunewalds were present, Donna, Kay's sister Eleanor. We brought Kole's little pool, so most of the time was spent in it - since the temperature was anywhere from 100 to 102 degrees throughout the day. Kole spent the entire day either splashing in the water, trying to climb in or out of the pool, or trying to free himself of Riley's grasp. The combination of heat and activity brought forth a level of physical exhaustion that is easy to qualify at this point as the most in his life. This was verified when he came home, ate and drank everything in sight Kathy put around him then was PASSED OUT in bed by 7:45pm. The previous night he was wound up till past 9pm. So after his 7:45 sleep time, he stayed crashed until just past 9:15am this morning!! Thirteen-plus hours of solid, uninterrupted sleep!! The kid was WORN OUT! I took a picture of him in his crib at 8:30 (about an hour past his normal wake up time) and the flash and camera noise didn't phase him.
Exactly one year after taking his first bath (there's an entry here if you care to dig far enough back) he had another eventful day in the water. No fireworks this year. Not even for mom. The convenience of the Joe Pool Lake campsite (Cedar Hill State Park) was that it was 7 miles from our driveway, so Kathy took him home to go to bed instead of trying to set up his Pack-n-Play crib in 102 degree heat (the RV had constant in-and-out traffic, preparing dinner, etc.) and expecting him to get any sort of sleep - only to be transfered to the house shortly afterwards anyways. We stuck around to watch the City of GP fireworks show at the lake - one of its lamest in years. Long day, lots of fun.
Photos: Patriotic Kole; Reagan, Kole and Riley in the pool; hour #13 of solid sleep the next morning.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Case closed

Kole's newest trick, and probably fascination, is closing things. Doors, drawers, cabinets ... if it's open, he wants to get a hand on it and close it. When he disappears now, when it gets a little too quiet, we're sure to hear the slam of a door - normally to his own room. He just likes to go in and shut the door.
He's also learned the art of opening and shutting the door on his little buggy car that his PaPa got him for his birthday. He quickly warmed up to it, liking to be pushed around in it. But, it normally began with Kathy or I dragging or leading him to the car. Now - he loves just going up to it, opening the door, getting in and shutting the car door behind him. He sits for a minute, gets out, wanders off to grab a toy, comes back and does it all over again. Last night while we watched a movie, Kole put on his own theater - getting in and out of his little car all night, squealing with happiness.
Attached is a little example of his new dexterous activity.